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Sunday, September 18, 2005

When MORE is LESS.....

this entry is meant for the guyz..
and gerls when u read it, tell me if u agree....
but this doesn't apply to all gerls...
we r all different..

i just chat with one of my fren hu's having probs with her bf of less den a mth..
pity her.. she reali don seem to be happy at all.. and i believe its the guy's fault..
nt being sexist or anithin but if i tell u the story, u will be siding me too..

ok so here goes....
they gt hitched in a few days aftr knowing each other..
yep.. tt's very fast... everything happened in less den a week... evrything is fine... even till now...
but the onli prob is tt: the guy want to be with her 24/7 !!!!

he wants to meet her everyday...
he wants to meet her early in the morning and be home late..
and when she's out with her frens, he will go to wherever she is just to see her..
but he still says that they don't spend enuff time together !!!
wtf !

YES!!
guyz, this is EXTREMELY IRRITATING for us gerls !!!!

we don like it when u all get overly clingy..
we need space... we need a life.. we need freedom...
of coz a certain extent of freedom... we noe our limits..
we don live our life for you..
of coz when we write poems and wad not, we will say such stuffs...
but plz, dat's fantasy... dis is real life..
WAKE UP !

we have our own lives to live tooo....
and u all have ur own...
so plz..... 24/7 is tooo much..

and ever heard of the saying,
"absence makes the heart grows fonder...." ?
how can tt ever be possible if u r together all the time ?

think abt it..
we love u if we say so... we sure want to spend time with u..
but u gt to understand...
we gerls are close to our gerlfrens too and we do need time to be with dem..
get it ?
nt spending time with each other everyday doesn't mean tt we don love u or we don wanna spend time with u..

we just need space..

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ok enuff abt tt..
let's move on to other related stuffs..

Guyz,
all we gerls ask for is for u to at least call us twice a day..
of coz in the beginning stage, u all call us every now and den like as if,
if u don call us, we mite disappear..
but as time goes by, of coz we don need to talk to each other like 1/2 of the time we live
and we don reali need to talk for long hours til the wee hours of the morning..

so all we need u all to do is just kol us at least twice a day...
one in the day just to ask how we are doing.. and one at nite, b4 u slp..
its as simple as that.... it don have to be a long call... just a short one is enuff too...

Guyz,
all we gerls ask for is for you all to be more romantic..
its hard to find romantic guyz nowadays.. i'm nt saying there aren't any but its very rare..
guyz in the movies are romantic by:

going for nice dinners at fancy restaurants..
watching sunset at exotic beaches..
giving surprises!
going into a room filled with candles and flowers.
doing anithin for the gerls as long as she is happy..
and the list goes on....

of coz when we watch such movies, we hope such would happen to us but sometimes it just never does... u guyz can stil be romantic but nt too tt extent of coz.. a lil surprise every now and then or anything like tt does make a different... it gives weight to the relationship...

a good living example:

my parents who have been maried for 19 years this yr are stil so loving and romantic.... i admire them and the love they share ... one time, my dad was at Hong Kong for a business trip and it was my mum's bdae... of coz my mum was upset and all coz she couldn't celebrate it with her dear one... den she gt a fabulous surprise! she recieve a bouquet of roses with a beanie bear in the center saying 'i miss you'... it was of coz from my dad... isn't tt just sweet ? now tt's wad i call romantic..

orite.. i'll continue with my lesson for guyz again soon..

haha... till nx time,

lots of love, Fara...

Don't forget to remember me.

11:42 PM